Barbie and Ken
WHEN I HEAR THE MORMONS AND EVANGELICALS TALK I WANT TO VOMIT
Stop telling everyone that you are not spreading hatred, division, and misunderstanding and that your message is really about love and inclusion. That through your religion people can obtain salvation and comfort. That is the furthest thing from your collective tiny minds. Your agenda is clear: to convert everyone even if you have to kill them in the process.
I think of very many poor children who are perceived to be gay at a very early age. These unfortunate souls are the recipients of constant bullying, humiliated and made fun of…all in the hands of the very bullies you raised…you see, if you hold those ideas and you are constantly voicing your disapproval for gays your own children will pick up on it and will take your hatred; transferred through them and unload it on some little boy or little girl who happens to act “different”
There are children who at a very early age display signs of gender reversal. There are little boys who would much rather play with dolls and doll houses than trucks and soldiers and little girls who are labeled “Tom Boys” who like sports and rough play instead of delicate pink games and frilly-lacy things. These are not acquired tastes folks…it is there and nobody told these children they should be doing that…on the contrary. As having been one who hated to 
get baseballs, sports gear and military toys when I was a child I can tell you it is not learned.
Then you give your little boy toy soldiers, toy guns and tanks and you are puzzled why he is so aggressive and then he grows up and wants to go and kill some perceived enemy abroad.
I say to you that you are no Christian and furthermore you are worse than the people you criticize because they don’t have a choice on the matter…you see; God made them that way, contrary to what you think; but God made you also and he gave you a brain, albeit a very small one and you choose to take this ideology and this attitude against people that have done nothing to you nor do they represent a threat to your marriage.
I found this letter in one of the blogs and it merits reading…it is from a mother of a gay young man.
The piece itself was written by Sharon Underwood, White River Junction, Vermont, USA, and published in April 2000 in the Valley News. Her feelings are very well expressed, and were in response to the many letters that had been sent to the Valley News concerning the “homosexual menace” in Vermont.
"I am the mother of a gay son and I’ve taken enough from you good people.
I’m tired of your foolish rhetoric about the “homosexual agenda” and your allegations that accepting homosexuality is the same thing as advocating sex with children. You are cruel and ignorant. You have been robbing me of the joys of motherhood ever since my children were tiny. My firstborn son started suffering at the hands of the moral little thugs from your moral, upright families from the time he was in the first grade. He was physically and verbally abused from first grade straight through high school because he was perceived to be gay. He never professed to be gay or had any association with anything gay, but he had the misfortune not to walk or have gestures like the other boys. He was called “fag” incessantly, starting when he was 6.
In high school, while your children were doing what kids that age should be doing, mine labored over a suicide note; drafting and redrafting it to be sure his family knew how much he loved them. My sobbing 17-year-old tore the heart out of me as he choked out that he just couldn't bear to continue living any longer, that he didn't want to be gay and that he couldn't face a life without dignity.
You have the audacity to talk about protecting families and children from the homosexual menace, while you yourselves tear apart families and drive children to despair. I don’t know why my son is gay, but I do know that God didn’t put him, and millions like him, on this Earth to give you someone to abuse. God gave you brains so that you could think, and it’s about time you started doing that.
At the core of all your misguided beliefs is the belief that this could never happen to you, that there is some kind of subculture out there that people have chosen to join. The fact is that if it can happen to my family, it can happen to yours, and you won't get to choose. Whether it is genetic or whether something occurs during a critical time of fetal development, I don’t know. I can only tell you with an absolute certainty that it is inborn.
If you want to tout your own morality, you’d best come up with something more substantive than your heterosexuality. You did nothing to earn it; it was given to you. If you disagree, I would be interested in hearing your story, because my own heterosexuality was a blessing I received with no effort whatsoever on my part. It is so woven into the very soul of me that nothing could ever change it. For those of you who reduce sexual orientation to a simple choice, a character issue, a bad habit or something that can be changed by a 10-step program, I’m puzzled. Are you saying that your own sexual orientation is nothing more than something you have chosen, that you could change it at will? If that's not the case, then why would you suggest that someone else can?
A popular theme in your letters is that Vermont has been infiltrated by outsiders. Both sides of my family have lived in Vermont for generations. I am heart and soul a Vermonter, so I'll thank you to stop saying that you are speaking for “true Vermonters.
You invoke the memory of the brave people who have fought on the battlefield for this great country, saying that they didn't give their lives so that the “homosexual agenda” could tear down the principles they died defending. My 83-year-old father fought in some of the most horrific battles of World War II, was wounded and awarded the Purple Heart.
He shakes his head in sadness at the life his grandson has had to live. He says he fought alongside homosexuals in those battles, that they did their part and bothered no one. One of his best friends in the service was gay, and he never knew it until the end, and when he did find out, it mattered not at all. That wasn't the measure of the man.
You religious folk just can't bear the thought that as my son emerges from the hell that was his childhood he might like to find a lifelong companion and have a measure of happiness. It offends your sensibilities that he should request the right to visit that companion in the hospital, to make medical decisions for him or to benefit from tax laws governing inheritance. How dare he? You say. These outrageous requests would threaten the very existence of your family, would undermine the sanctity of marriage.
You use religion to abdicate your responsibility to be thinking human beings. There are vast numbers of religious people who find your attitudes repugnant. God is not for the privileged majority, and God knows my son has committed no sin. The deep-thinking author of a letter to the April 12 Valley News who lectures about homosexual sin and tells us about “those of us who have been blessed with the benefits of a religious upbringing” asks: “What ever happened to the idea of striving … to be better human beings than we are?”
Indeed, sir, whatever happened to that?
Sharon Underwood.
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I invite you to go to anothercountry blog and read the open letter to Gay, Bi, and Transgender Teens by Dave Navarro.
In any case, what makes you think that you are better because your sexual activity involves inserting a penis into a vagina? That just doesn’t make you any better.
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